I know some read here, some read my facebook stuff, some myspace. All have same information to varying degrees. I have a few of Paul’s family on different stuff. I know none follow the blog.
Here is what is going on. I have talked about MIL at length. She is a huge stress for our family, marriage and the boys could careless if she is around. Her actions and annoyances are just going to the extreme. We as a family have decided to end contact. She enables her drug addicted daughter. We have figured out she is using again. She “accidentally” took 3 bottles of pills. You don’t accidentally take that many pills. It is just insanity. She has threatened Paul and my kids. She has done what she can to break us apart. Unfortunately our love is stronger than her hate.
CT schools Autism help sucks!!! They are taking Nathan from a 5 day week program to a 3 day a week program. Blake is doing well but for us it just makes sense to move.
We are struggling financially here. No one wants to buy a car. Everyone is scared to buy a car. We have gotten our kids to be so high functioning thanks to treatments and therapies. I have to go back to work here. I cant put that on the babysitter. It is a lot. So for us to continue. We need to go where we can afford to live. Afford me to work only part time. Where we are away from psycho Mil.
For Us we are moving Nine hours from home and 9 hours from my fil. I love Paul’s dad. will be happy to be closer to him. He is funny and just a good guy who cares for our boys like my family.
Will I miss my CT friends and family absolutly. Skype is a great invention. I am only a plane ride away. I am excited for this adventure. I am excited to see what happens next. I am excited to be able to move and do with my kids. Get them a better school system. A better life. That is what everyone wants for their kids right??
So VA or NC here we come. We are wanting this more than anything. We are ready. Kids and I will be down in october. Paul as soon as he is offered a position.